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I thought I would share a few different prayers of Thanksgiving.

A Prayer for a Thankful Heart

“Lord, teach me to offer you a heart of thanksgiving and praise in all my daily experiences of life. Teach me to be joyful always, to pray continually and to give thanks in all my circumstances. I accept them as Your will for my life (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). I long to bring pleasure to Your heart daily. Break the power of the enemy in my life. Defeat Him through my sacrifice of praise. Change my outlook and attitude into one of joyful contentment with my present circumstances. I thank You for all that I have and all that I am and all that I am to come.                                                                         – Debbie Przybylski, Intercessors Arise International (adapted)

   A Short Prayer of Thanks 

“God, sometimes life gets me down and I find it hard to see things to be thankful for. Open my eyes to see the gifts you’ve given me in my life. I’m going to start by thanking you for loving me enough to come to earth and die so we can live together forever. Amen.”                                                  – Wendy van Eyck, Contributor, Crosswalk.com

A Prayer to Teach Kids Thankfulness

“Lord, I pray that the message of Christ and his sacrifice is the root of gratitude in my heart. That His gracious gift leads me to thankful living, setting an example for my children. That they will have their own relationship with Jesus one day, and that You would grow gratitude in their hearts out of the acceptance of Jesus as their Savior. Lead us to do everything in the name of Jesus and give thanks to You through Him.”                                  – Marie Osborne, Contributor


10/25/17    Be Not Afraid  for reflection 

10/21/17    Hope Amid an Epidemic of Violence — see what Bishop Malone has to say on this subject

Secretariat of Pro-Life Activities

“Be Not Afraid”
Respect Life Month, October 2017

My dear friends in Christ:

Once again, we mark the month of October as Respect Life Month. Looking back over the last year, there’s been a lot of uncertainty, suffering, and heartache. Between tragedies that occur in the public eye and trials that take place in our personal lives, there’s no shortage of reasons we cry out to God.

At such times, we may feel alone and unequipped to handle the circumstances. But we have an anchor of hope to cling to. With words that echo through thousands of years into the corners of our hearts, God says to us, “Do not fear: I am with you” (Isaiah 41:10).

The 2017-2018 Respect Life theme, “Be Not Afraid,” reminds us of this promise.

God isn’t a detached, distant observer to our pain; the Eternal Son became man and Himself experienced immense suffering—for you and for me. His wounds indicate the very essence of our identity and worth: we are loved by God.

There are times we may doubt the value of our own lives or falter at the thought of welcoming and embracing the life of another. But reflecting on the healed wounds of the Risen Christ, we can see that even our most difficult trials can be the place where God manifests his victory. He makes all things beautiful. He makes all things new. He is the God of redemption.

That’s powerful. That’s something to hold onto.

And, He is always with us. Jesus promised this when he gave the disciples the same mission he gives to each of us: Go.

As followers of Jesus Christ, we know that our identity and our mission are two sides of the same coin; like the apostles, we are called to be missionary disciples. We are not only invited to follow and take refuge in God, our stronghold, but we are also commissioned to reach out to one another, especially to the weak and vulnerable.

Building a culture of life isn’t something we just do one month of the year, or with one event or initiative—it’s essential to who we are. It happens through our daily actions, how we treat one another, and how we live our lives.

How do we respond when our aging parents are in failing health? Do they know how much we love them and cherish each day given? Do we ensure they know they are never a burden to us? In our own challenging times, do we ask for support? When others offer a helping hand, do we receive it? When our friend becomes pregnant in difficult circumstances, do we show compassion that tangibly supports her and helps her welcome the life of her new little one?

Sometimes, we may not be sure exactly what to do, but let’s not allow the fear of doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing keep us from living out our missionary call. We don’t need to have everything figured out all at once. Let’s remember the guidance of Our Blessed Mother, the first disciple: “Do whatever he tells you” (John 2:5).

Also, I encourage you to visit www.usccb.org/respectlife to see the U.S. bishops’ new Respect Life materials centered on the theme “Be Not Afraid.” There are articles, bulletin inserts, prayers, action ideas, and more!

This Respect Life Month and always, let’s walk with each other; let’s help each other embrace God’s gift of human life. Whatever storms or trials we face, we are not alone. He is with us: “Behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20).

Sincerely yours in Christ,
Timothy Cardinal Dolan
USCCB Committee on Pro-Life Activities
October 2017

The following links are to articles published by the United States Council of Catholic Bishops on the website www.usccb.org.

How to Build a Culture of Life

Bishop Maloney on Domestic Violence

Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233) – 24 hours, toll free  or visit  the National Domestic Violence Hotline for more information.  Please check out the Catholic Families for Peace website for more information.


What to Do When a Friend is Considering Abortion

  • If you or someone you know is suffering after abortion, confidential non-judgmental help is available.   Call Project Rachel’s national toll-free number: 888-456-HOPE(-4673) or visit HopeAfterAbortion.org.  Or  visit  www.buffalodiocese.org/pro-life  or call Project Rachel’s Buffalo office at (716) 847-2211.

Top Reasons to Oppose Assisted Suicide

Catholic Considerations for Our Earthly Passing

Understanding Conscience

Death Penalty: Catholic Q&A


10/7/2017:   This weekend please take a few moments in prayer and reflect upon your week and try and pinpoint a few moments that may have been stressful, difficult, maybe even mundane or boring, and looking back on those moments,consider how they may have been blessings or may have bore fruit had we approached them differently.

Starting this Saturday, in response to Pope Francis’ call to care for the Refugee, the USCCB, CRS and Catholic Charities U.S.A have initiated a week of prayer and action to “Love Your Neighbor” especially the many refugees in our world.
This initiative is called Share the Journey, under the hashtag #Sharejourney.

Here is the link to the webpage with practical suggestions and prayers for the week, showing ways that we can help refugees and those displaced in our country and world: https://www.sharejourney.org Please take a look at this website and especially pray this week for those suffering from the injustices of our world.

I am drawn to think about the Holy Family and how they themselves were refugees. How the angel came to Joseph in a dream and called him to take his family to Egypt to avoid the scourge of infants under King Herod.  Can you imagine Joseph, bringing with him the two most Holy and influential people that have ever walked the Earth and fleeing to an unknown land?  What an example to us about obedience and trust in the Father’s will! We know very little of that time in the life of the Holy Family, but how crucial to the salvation of the world that they would experience a flight into safety.

May we be a people whose prayer affects the way we live our lives. May we strive to love our neighbor as Christ loves us and we love ourselves.

Have a fun, safe weekend! I look forward to seeing you all next week!

Go bills 🙂